The Love Dare - Day 4

   Sorry for the long absence. Grabeng ka-busy-han namin ni Jovel this past week. I've been working on two theses, that's why I haven't been able to post. Parang ang rami pang kailangang gawin, while there's too little time. I'm planning to go on vacation by April 15. Hopefully, marami na kaming nagawang pera by that time. Oo, para kaming BSP, gumagawa ng pera. : p

  So kumusta naman ang mga love darers? Sorry for leaving you hanging. I didn't realize na five days na pala since my last post. Frankly, stuck pa rin ako sa dare # 1 - Love is Patient. I hope I can finally get on the program with the theses out of the way.So here goes dare # 4. Oh, I love this one! :D

The Love Dare - Day 4: Love is Thoughtful

 "Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them?"

  Have a blessed day everyone! :D

The Love Dare - Day 3

   Sorry for posting this late. I was hoping to post this immediately after a blog entry I was writing earlier but some things came up. So I end up not finishing the blog entry and not posting today's challenge. Anyway, here goes The Love Dare - Day 3

The Love Dare - Day 3: Love is Not Selfish

"Whatever you put time, energy and money into will become more important to you. It's hard to care for something that you are not investing in. Along with restraining from negative comments, buy your spouse something that says, "I was thinking of you today."

The Love Dare - Day 2

   I'm planning to re-take Day 1 of the Love Dare. Not that I failed miserably yesterday, but I don't think Jovel gave me enough chance to test my patience. o di ba, parang ang bait ng asawa ko. :) 

   Taking the "Love is Patient" dare yesterday made me conscious of my words and actions towards my husband. I realized that despite being more diplomatic when it comes to dealing with other people, I'm the one who's more impatient when it is just the two of us. Although I did not say anything negative, I found myself being sarcastic and "mataray" on several occasions. Bakit kung anong ikinabait ko sa ibang tao, siyang ikinataray ko sa asawa ko. Don't you sometimes feel this way, parang OK lang magtaray sa asawa, boyfriend, anak, kasama sa bahay or anyone close to you but not to co-workers or acquaintances? Hay... parang mali.

   For those who were able to complete the first dare, congratulations! Here's dare # 2.

The Love Dare - Day 2: Love is Kind

"In addition to saying nothing negative to your spouse again today, do at least one unexpected gesture as an act of kindness."

    Uy, exciting! :)